When I saw today’s writing prompt—“If you could have anything named after you, what would it be?”—it got me thinking. Honestly? I don’t think I’d want anything named after me. No buildings, awards, or even a coffee blend (though I do love a strong cup of tea).
But I would want something to live on after me. Not my name, but my work. My heart. My empathy. My compassion. The way I support parents who are going through the hardest days of their lives—whether that’s in the NICU, facing birth trauma, navigating life with a neurodivergent child, or feeling like they’re not enough.
I want people to feel seen and understood. That’s what really matters to me.
If anything was to carry my legacy, I’d want it to be the ripple effect of kindness. Of real, raw support that helps parents feel less alone. I want my daughter to grow up knowing that showing empathy is not a weakness—it’s one of the strongest things you can do. I want her to see that her mum stood up, shared her truth, and tried to make a difference in a world that so often tells us to keep quiet and carry on.
We don’t need to be remembered with statues. We can be remembered in hugs, in shared stories, in the moments when someone says, “You helped me feel human again.”
So no, I don’t need something named after me. I just hope the impact I leave behind speaks louder than a plaque ever could.
Let me know—what would you want named after you? Or would you rather leave behind something different? Share your thoughts in the comments below. And if this resonated with you, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share. Your voice matters, and I’m so glad you’re here.
References:
• Personal reflection and lived experience
• Daily Prompt inspiration from WordPress
If you could have something named after you, what would it be?