If you’d asked me years ago whether I’d ever be grateful for being set up on a date, I’d have laughed. But honestly? Saying yes to that blind date was one of the bravest and best risks I’ve ever taken.
That one decision led me to a life I never imagined possible—married to an incredible, supportive man, raising our tornado of a child (who constantly amazes us), and being part of a new family that I absolutely adore. I know I’m lucky—I get on so well with my in-laws that my mother-in-law has become one of my best friends.
It wasn’t all smooth sailing from the start. On our second date, I initiated the first kiss—my heart was pounding, and I was scared to death. I knew Ryan was going to be important in my life, but I didn’t know if he’d end up being a best friend or something more.
Three months after we met, the world changed. A global pandemic hit, and we were faced with a choice: not see each other for months… or bite the bullet and move in together. We chose the latter, and it was, without a doubt, the best decision we’ve ever made.
The second biggest risk I took? Starting this—this blog, this platform, and my mission to support other parents, especially those navigating prematurity, trauma, and neurodiversity. I didn’t have a business plan or a big budget, but I had a heart full of purpose and a voice that needed to be heard.
It was terrifying to put myself out there. But I knew what it felt like to feel alone in parenthood—and I wanted to make sure no one else felt that way. Every blog post, podcast episode, and shared story is rooted in that risk. And every day, I’m reminded it was the right one.
What risk have you taken that you don’t regret?
Let’s celebrate those leaps of faith—big or small. They shape our stories in ways we often don’t expect.
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Describe a risk you took that you do not regret.