I’ve always loved a good book—whether I’m curled up with a paperback or walking around with an audiobook in my ears. But what I didn’t realise until recently is how much I crave learning. Not just reading for pleasure (though that’s still very much part of my life), but the kind of learning that lights you up from the inside out. That deep, soul-sparking personal development stuff.
When I used to work on cruise ships, I’d often finish a contract and head straight into some sort of training. At the time, I didn’t really think about why—it just felt good. Like a buzz. I now know it was because learning made me feel alive. It gave me purpose, focus, direction.
But somewhere along the way, I lost that part of myself. Life took over, and learning started to feel like a chore. Like another thing on the to-do list. I forgot how much joy I found in growth. It wasn’t until I started doing deep self-reflection and healing—especially after becoming a mum and navigating trauma—that I realised what was missing.
I’d lost me.
But here’s the beautiful part: I found myself again. Through the pages of books, the voices in my headphones, and the stories of people who dared to dream big and start again. Now, I feel more connected, more excited—and more me—than I have in years.
Yes, I’ll always have a book or two on the go just for the fun of it, but lately, I’ve been drawn to books that fuel my business journey and personal growth. Here are a few that have truly left a mark on me:
Not Just for Mums by Claire Antill – This book has been such a refreshing reminder that motherhood and ambition can exist side by side. It’s honest, empowering, and full of practical gems.
The 6-Minute Entrepreneur – I’ve already listened to this twice. The first time was just to absorb it. Now, I’m listening again, notebook in hand, pausing every few minutes to scribble down ideas.
The 12 Week Year – I’m on my third round of this one! It’s totally transformed how I think about time and productivity.
What’s Your Dream? by Simon Squibb – A recent find, and wow… it really speaks to the part of me that wants to make impact and follow purpose.
Each of these books has helped me refocus and get clearer on the direction I want to take with my business and my life. It’s not just about being productive; it’s about being aligned—with my values, my goals, and the person I want to be.
So, if you’re a fellow parent in your thirties or forties, maybe navigating neurodiversity in your family like we are, and you’ve ever felt like you’ve lost yourself in the chaos—this is your reminder. You’re not alone. And it’s never too late to reconnect with who you are and what lights you up.
What’s the last book that lit you up inside? I’d love to hear your recommendations—drop them in the comments below.
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References:
Not Just for Mums by Claire Antill
The 6-Minute Entrepreneur by Natalie Scott
The 12 Week Year by Brian P. Moran and Michael Lennington
What’s Your Dream? by Simon Squibb
What book could you read over and over again?
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