There’s something I don’t often admit out loud – every time I launch a new book, start a fresh campaign, or share a deeply personal story, I get nervous. Proper butterflies-in-the-stomach, overthinking-every-word, wondering-if-it-will-reach-anyone kind of nervous.
You see, everything I do – whether it’s writing, blogging, or creating new support campaigns – comes from a place of love, grief, lived experience, and sheer determination to help others feel less alone. But putting that out into the world? That’s a vulnerable thing.
I get nervous because I care.
I care about the parents who are quietly scrolling at 2am, looking for hope. I care about the families navigating prematurity, neurodiversity, and trauma, feeling like no one truly understands. I care about people seeing me for who I really am – someone who knows the fear of not fitting in, the sting of loss, the weight of doing your best and still wondering if it’s enough.
When I share something new, it’s not about attention or praise. It’s a quiet whisper of “I see you. I’ve been there. You’re not on your own.”
But it’s scary too. I worry – will people get it? Will my words help or will they be misunderstood? And most of all – am I doing enough?
Why I keep going anyway
Despite all those nerves, I keep creating. Because the thought that even one parent might feel a little more supported, a little less overwhelmed, a little more hopeful – that’s everything.
I want what I do to be more than content. I want it to be connection. A digital hug. A way to say, “You matter. Your journey matters.”
I hope, truly hope, that what I put into the world – whether it’s a book, a blog, a post, or a campaign – helps you feel supported, valued and seen. That’s what drives me through the nerves.
So, thank you. If you’re reading this, you’re part of this journey. And that means the world.
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With heart,
Laura
The Good, The Bad, and Your Parenting Journey
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References:
My own experience of parenting a premature baby and navigating life as a neurodivergent mum
Personal reflections on grief, loss, and support
Community feedback and lived experiences shared by families I’ve met through this journey
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