Today’s blog prompt is a simple question: do you have a dog or a cat? The short answer from me is… no. We don’t have any pets.
And while on the surface that might seem like a choice, the reality is a bit more frustrating. I’m allergic to both dogs and cats—which means even though I would absolutely love to have a pet, especially a dog, it’s not something that’s very practical for our household right now.
But let me tell you, if my immune system suddenly decided to behave itself, I wouldn’t just be getting a dog for the sake of it. I’d be looking into a service dog.
Why I’d Love a Dog – And Especially a Service Dog
There’s something so beautiful about the bond between a child and a dog. Dogs can teach so many values we want our children to carry with them:
🦴 Compassion
🦴 Love
🦴 Responsibility
🦴 Patience
🦴 Exercise (for both of us!)
And for families like mine, where neurodiversity is a part of daily life, dogs can provide not just companionship, but real emotional and practical support.
I’ve read so many amazing stories of service dogs helping with sensory regulation, alerting their humans to seizures, grounding them during meltdowns or moments of distress, and even helping children with additional needs feel safe and understood. The idea of having that kind of support is a powerful one.
But There’s a But…
The truth is, I don’t know if I’m physically fit enough for a dog—let alone a high-needs one like a service dog.
A few months ago, I offered to take our neighbour’s dog, Milo, around the block. I thought, “It’s just a short walk—how hard could it be?” Well… it was hard. I had Milo attached to the buggy, and he was raring to go. I, on the other hand, was doing my best just to stay upright and breathe.
By the time we’d gone once around the block, I felt utterly wiped out. My joints ached, I couldn’t keep up with his pace, and I ended up feeling disappointed in myself.
And while we’re being honest… I think I annoy my husband sometimes with how often I have to ask him to slow down when we walk. That’s what you get for marrying a marathon runner, I suppose! 😅
If I Could Choose Any Dog…
If allergies, fitness, and practicality weren’t barriers, I think I’d go for an Italian Greyhound. They’re elegant, sweet, and small enough to not overpower me.
But I also have a soft spot for retired greyhounds. There’s something noble about them. I love the idea of giving a dog a second chapter in life after racing—letting them know they’re safe, loved, and can finally rest.
Closing Thoughts
I think about pets more than people might realise. Even though it might never be a reality for us, I still hold onto the idea of it. Not just for me—but for my little girl. To grow up learning those quiet lessons only animals seem to teach so effortlessly.
For now, we’ll enjoy the dogs we get to borrow for cuddles and short visits. And who knows what the future holds?
Do You Have a Pet?
I’d love to hear about your furry family members. Have you had experience with service dogs, or retired greyhounds, or are you like me—dreaming of a pet you can’t quite have (yet)?
Let’s chat in the comments.
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